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Well, pretty much the title says it all.

By dreams I don’t really mean billionaire and buying land and cars.

I personally, believe that having a healthy lifestyle and a shredded body, a loving wife, a nice family with one or maybe two dogs and being able to afford some stuff ( travel once a year, a decent car), being more wise (be more educated) and become “important” at your job, whatever job you’re working, is pretty much everything.

But, even that feels too much sometimes, is it just me?

I have been born and raised in a relatively small city, (60k population). When I was younger 18-20 I used to have more communication with girls, through school, from socialising etc.

Nowadays ( I’m 23) I’m leaving in a much much larger city and I get zero girls. As much as I try to “date” or to find someone through social media doesn’t end well, when I’m out in a bar trying to communicate, doesn’t go as well as it used to be.

I decided to hit the gym, six months and still counting, and I believe because my self esteem has increased I have some more attention but nothing too crazy.

But genuinely I can’t find something I like. And to be honest it’s very hard to find anything at this poi

23M

Well, I’m 23M and i have a little cousin (10M).

I don’t have any siblings neither my cousin, I care deeply about him and I’m trying to educate him and tell him some things that I wished someone had told me back in the day.

His parents care about him but they’re kinda lazy, I had to teach him some basic skills, such as riding a bike, playing soccer/football (depending on which country you’re from), basketball volleyball etc.

He’s trying but he isn’t very very good at it. For example, from all these sports he liked volleyball, so he started practicing in a local team with other kids in his age. The other kids moved “league” and now they’re training with older kids and my cousin (because o

Hey, some backstory first I’m 22M, 3 years ago I started dating a girl 20F the first 6 months we were kinda okey with each other she wasn’t loyal but I really didn’t care cuz I wasn’t too (it’s not right I know but who cares). Then we stopped talking for a couple months, suddenly she started talking to me and wanted to reconnect and do it right etc etc.

I know i shouldn’t have accept her back but for the past 1.5 years i went through a very difficult period of my life. I treated her right with respect the only one I fooled was myself

I should’ve ended our “relationship” a long time ago but I couldn’t care for this thing too..

She didn’t respect me or my job, she kinda made me feel little

Με αφορμή ένα παρόμοιο ποστ που είδα εχθές, θα ήθελα να πω και εγώ τον δικό μου προβληματισμό μήπως και μου προτείνετε κάποια λύση.

Καταρχάς, λίγα λόγια για τα άτομα που βγαίνω. Έχω διαφορετικές παρέες, είναι άσχετες μεταξύ τους. Πχ έχω ξαδέρφια που και που βγαίνω με αυτούς, έχω άτομα από την δουλειά που βγαίνω πιο σπάνια με αυτούς, έχω γνωστούς από το πανεπιστημιο που ακόμα κρατάμε κάπως σχέσεις, τέλος έχω και κάτι άλλους που γνωριστήκαμε από κοινούς γνωστούς και έχουμε κρατήσει επαφές.

Νιώθω ότι είμαι η 2η ή ακόμα και η 3η επιλογή τους. Δηλαδή ότι εάν δεν μπορεί κανείς άλλος να βγει μαζί τους λόγω δουλειάς/ή υποχρεώσεων τότε θα μου πουν να κανονίσουμε.

Όλοι έχουν τις «βασικές τους πα

For example, in the old days you were a low income person and now, all of a sudden something magical happened and somehow you inherited/made/borrowed idk a big amount of money, (let’s say 500k and more).

What is that thing that completely changes apart from the obvious things (better house, car, clothes).

Οι γονείς μου, όταν ήμουν στο σχολείο, δεν μίλαγαν με άλλους γονείς συμμαθητών μου (με εξαίρεση 2-3 μαμάδες) και θεωρώ ότι αυτό είχε αντίκτυπο στην δίκη μου κοινωνικοποίηση, θα σας εξηγήσω.

Θυμάμαι πχ στο σχόλασμα ότι όλοι οι γονείς μετά πηγαίνανε για καφέ ή είχαν κοινά ενδιαφέροντα μεταξύ τους κάνανε φιλίες κτλ, κατά συνέπεια τα παιδιά τους κάνανε παρέες μεταξύ τους. Τώρα εμένα δεν ήθελαν, δεν ξέρω τι και πως, αλλά ποτέ δεν θυμάμαι να βγαίνανε με γονιούς φίλων μου.

Ένα άλλο παράδειγμα είναι ότι ξαφνικά όλοι οι συμμαθητές μου άρχισαν να κάνουν κοινά χόμπι, να πηγαίνουν στους ίδιους εξωσχολικούς καθηγητές κτλ, ίδια ομάδα ποδοσφαίρου, ίδια πολεμική τέχνη κτλ.

Ήμουν μικρός τότε δεν τα αντιλα

Hey 👋

I’m 24M and I’m looking to adopt a dog. I live all by my own in a fairly decent size apartment. I work about 8-9 hours a day 6 out of 7 days a week. The rest hours I’m usually chilling home doing chores and maybe I go to gym for about 1-2 hours a day.

I guess if I need to hung out with my friends I could take the dog with me.

Is it possible to sustain a healthy environment for a fairly small dog? I mostly want a dog for company but only if I can assure that I can offer him a healthy environment.

I would like to hear your thoughts. Thank you in advance. 🙏

Hello everyone 👋

Some days ago, I posted here asking for some advice for my trip to Italy. You all were very helpful and informed me with some great advices.

Now I have returned and I would like to mention some things.

Such a lovely city, with so much history behind it. Some said that 4 nights were more than enough but my type of vacation required at least another 4 nights. I don’t want to rush things I want to enjoy the walks, the museums , the restaurants and generally to observe how the city goes along, I want to feel like I’m from the place I visit and I try to move along the locals.

But, I would like to mention that the locals, at least the guys that we had communication (taxi driv

Hey everyone 👋

I’m travelling with my girlfriend in a few days in Milan. To be more specific, we’re gonna stay 4 nights in this city.

We have already booked a hotel to stay, I was wondering if you could give us some advice about the following:

1. what is a must to visit

2. some good restaurants where we get to taste some traditional food

3. what means of transport should we use more often

4. where is the best place for shopping

5. some areas with nice nightlife

And finally, what should we avoid, mostly the high crime areas and genuinely whatever you think is worth mentioning

Feel free to share with us your experiences visiting this beautiful city.

Thanks in advance.

Hey 👋

I’m gonna travel to Italy in a few days, I was wondering if you could give any tips/advices.

I would like to tell me nice places to eat, what to visit in these few days of my visit, what city transports to choose, what to avoid and basically whatever else you think it’s helpful!

Thank you in advance!😄