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r/PCOS•

i’ve been to 7-8 sessions of laser and though it worked at first, i got paradoxical hypertrichosis. what initially started as coarse hairs on my chin and neck has now spread further on my neck and cheeks as thinner but much more frequent hairs. it makes me incredibly insecure and i am so sick of having to shave every morning.

i have been to 5 sessions of electrolysis so far, and i will continue but they cost €100 per hour, so i cannot go as much as i would like to. i haven’t seen any results so far and i break out terribly for a week after. it’s really demoralizing. i know it’s a long process but when will i start seeing results?

are there any supplements/natural ways i can support this p

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engineering in netherlands

Careers / placement

hi! i’m graduating in 2 months with a bachelor in biomedical engineering in lithuania. i currently work as a junior mechanical engineer, so i have industry experience of 1 year. i’d really love to move to the netherlands post graduation but it’s not too realistic without thorough research. i wanted to ask the local opinion first. is it possible to find an adjacent position to mine or an internship for english speakers? i haven’t seen any so far. i’m willing to learn the language but obviously i don’t speak it yet. if i did find an opportunity, do you think it’s worth moving there? i have been to multiple cities and i’ve absolutely loved it there. how’s cost of living compared to salaries?

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hi! i’m graduating in 2 months with a bachelor in biomedical engineering in lithuania. i currently work as a junior mechanical engineer, so i have industry experience of 1 year. i’d really love to move to the netherlands but i wanted to ask the local opinion first. is it possible to find an adjacent position to mine for english speakers? i haven’t seen any so far. i’m willing to learn the language but obviously i don’t speak it yet. if i did find an opportunity, do you think it’s worth moving there? i have been to multiple cities and i’ve absolutely loved it there. how’s cost of living compared to salaries?

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r/Netherlands•

hi! i’m graduating in 2 months with a bachelor in biomedical engineering in lithuania. i currently work as a junior mechanical engineer, so i have industry experience of 1 year. i’d really love to move to the netherlands but i wanted to ask the local opinion first. is it possible to find an adjacent position to mine for english speakers? i haven’t seen any so far. i’m willing to learn the language but obviously i don’t speak it yet. if i did find an opportunity, do you think it’s worth moving there? i have been to multiple cities and i’ve absolutely loved it there. how’s cost of living compared to salaries?

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r/AskLesbians•

hi, i’m 22 and bi. i’ve been talking to this girl recently but i’ve only been with men since i have a very homophobic family. it’s nothing serious but she invited me over and i know what will end up happening since she’s very open about what she wants. do you have any tips for someone who has no idea how it will work with another woman? i’m especially nervous about going down on her. what should i/should i not be doing? please help a gal out

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r/BecomingOrgasmic•

i’m 22f and i never came in my life. not masturbating, not with a partner. i’ve been with 4 people, 2 of them being long term relationships and though i really enjoy sex, i never experience it the way it’s described and i’m not even sure what it’s supposed to feel like to cum. i often feel broken or like there’s something wrong with me. i’ve tried toys, i don’t know what else i can do

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i’m 6’1 and i’ve been seeing a guy who’s 5’9. we get along incredibly well, almost as if we’re the same person in different ways. he’s VERY into me and he’s not subtle about it at all. i’ve always been too conscious of my height, being as tall as i am. i thought he would think the same way about me but i guess not. i want to get over this height thing in my head, because i truly don’t care how tall he is. i just cannot help but feel bad about being taller than almost all people around me. do guys usually like girls taller than them? i wouldn’t have imagined

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r/electrolysis•

hi! i have pcos and i’ve experienced paradoxical hypertrichosis on my face and neck after months of laser. i have an electrolysis consultation on saturday but i’m not very educated. i wanted to ask if there is anything i should beware of? what should i look out for in the clinic? reviews seem good but how do i know it’s a good place when i’m there and would you recommend anything before the session? how are the pain levels? i just want to be ready ahah

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r/abortion•

something that i said would never happen, happened two weeks ago (while i was drunk and ovulating), unprotected vaginal sex. he did pull out but i’m genuinely SPIRALING about the possibility of being pregnant. it’s genuinely a phobia of mine to get an abortion or worse yet, give birth. i do have pcos so i’m hoping it decreases my chances of fertility but i cannot even take a test until the 16th. i don’t know how to calm down, i have been panicking and feeling nauseous 24/7 since it happened. how do i calm myself down? if i do have to get an abortion how much will it hurt considering i have a very low pain tolerance?

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