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In the UK trans youth are not able to get the puberty blockers that are medically necessary, because one piece of shit detransitioner had to politicize her own fucking mistake. She could have just won her case and not take the podium to announce the lies about how it will save trans youth. I’m so livid and can’t stop hoping that karma will do its full on vengeance on her.

Anyway im in the states, but these kids need our support and we need to try and help change this completely harmful law.

Fuck thar POS for harming countless numbers of kids.

If one holds the position that unless your a trans person undergoing HRT, you shouldn’t be using the bathroom according to your gender identity. If one has not tried to conform to gender norms in anyway and that person appears as their agab is it transphobic to say they shouldn’t use the bathroom that corresponds to their gender.

I know this is something that lots of people think about and struggle to answer. I also know that HRT is not always an option for people.

I personally think that unless your socially transitioning and starting to exhibit secondary sex characteristics of your gender identity you shouldn’t be putting yourself in danger of getting called out or attacked. I also

Being a bi trans woman, i am attracted to both women and men. Not quite equally cause definitely more into the ladies. Here’s my problem though, I cant seem to make a connection with gnc people. I seem to want my partner to be either feminine leaning or masc leaning, either one or the other. Binary presentation is what I need it seems for me to be attracted to my partner. I feel like im being phobic against non binary people for needing and wanting this in my partner. My mind says I love and support gnc/nb people, but my attraction is only for the binary. Gawd I hope I’m not being a phobe by feeling this way.

I can’t help feel sorry for so many young women doing sex work to survive, to transition. And I am generally very sex positive, buuuuut... there’s a fairly popular site here on Reddit that shows women doing some really extreme things to themselves in a way that can be harmful to themselves (I think?). I can’t begin to describe my concern for these beautiful women who are doing this type of work. Please don’t get me wrong, I think if it makes them happy then its really non of my business what they do. I read so many comments on the sex act posts and its like 100 fetish cringe, literally the worst chaser environment a trans person could ever be in.

I wonder, and of course I know it’s oft

In the produce section of my local Walmart, she actually stood directly in front of me and stared at my crotch, I was wearing athletic leggings . Wow that was surreal, she didn’t even look at me in the eyes, just followed me and took an opportunity to stare for a good solid 5/1000 countdown. Probably a fart trying to tell me I am not fooling anyone. What a piece of trash!. Be careful, I wish I could have said something that would have called her out for being a perv. But I didn’t want to take the chance of causing a scene. Smh. Thought I’d share.

Why do so many straight guys want to be penetrated? Like so far every guy I have dated eventually beg and get super pissy when they know damn well, at the beginning of dating that I don’t top. I mean its really surprising how many guys who are supposed to be straight yet want to be penetrated. I mean I can’t really do it anymore, maybe. But I would be so disgusted that my man take it up the bum. I mean its okay if you wanna do it yourself, but can I not be in the picture. I just want a cis het guy who is honest at the start. Not some sick disgusting liar chaser that knows how to tell me what I want to hear. Anyway girls, how common is it for guys to ask for anal from non/pre op gir

Please don’t misgender them, I’m sure y’all don’t want someone doing that to you. That’s all.

Call them “sir” right back? How does it work? Is it counterproductive? Just thought about it and was thinking if it was a man, then use “ma’am” and if a woman use “sir”. Honestly im just sick of cis people and their transphobic bullying of anyone’s gender non cis conformity.

anybody else dumb it down to get along with your partner? Also, put up with some mild misogyny? I feel like saying something, but I have seen a shit ton of cis women taking abuse from their partners and still managed to make it work more often than not. Is it normal?

Most of my trans sisters here on Reddit and other social media platforms are super supportive, kind, seeming open to the ideas of dating other trans women. But, anytime out in the world they are super shy, introverted, sometimes seemingly annoyed by my mere presence. I’m not even sure what could be the problem is. I’m sad. I am not a fan of dating cis people, their just another level of problems for me, especially for my self esteem. Anyway I’m pretty sure I’m getting attacked and accused of something like clocking. Anyway I’m a bi trans woman, been dating cis men mostly, what a fucking minefield of total bull shit that has been. I wanna girlfriend who won’t challenge my womanhood w

“ I was born cis, so I’m the girl girl in this relationship”. I read something shared here in this sub a while back and it stuck with me. I now worry that if I were to actually be in a ltr with a cis woman, this would be used against me. I like to think that if our relationship were to get rough that this sort of situation (comment) wouldn’t come up. My cis ex put this kinda expectation on me before I came out always forcing the gender role stereotype on me, it always made me stressed out sick and I resented her for it. I’m almost thinking that I’m developing a sort of phobia of cis women, specifically relationship wise. I don’t ever want to believe trans women are different than cis w

I’m so sad and feeling hopeless 😩. I keep thinking about the people that are supposed to have been there for me and weren’t. After all the harm and abuse I got from them I sometimes feel like I deserve it. I’m in a dark place and wish I would die. Its just too bad Im such a chicken shit and cant do it.

Uggh. Please someone kill me.

I was totally flirting with a cute guy today, we were at the bouldering section of the climbing gym I go to once in a while. We seemed to hit it off. I introduced myself and he I, chatted about climbing techniques and he was showing me some of his skills. Such a sweet guy too! OMG! Just had to excuse myself to go climbing on another route (in a different area of the gym), cause he just didn’t make a move on me after some of my pretty obvious signals. Oooopfh! Damn I really hoped we exchanged numbers or some shit. I’m super disappointed and now feel like I should have been the one to have made the move on him. I don’t know if that would make me comfortable though, cause I kinda need t

So the person I was (is?) dating said they don’t see gender, I seem to get triggered by this comment, I know I’m a person first, but wtf do they mean they don’t see gender? I didn’t start my transition. HRT, surgeries and living authentically to be told they don’t see my gender. The thing is, if what I am sharing here is problematic, I don’t think I could or even want to be okay with being told that my gender identity is invisible. I can’t get over how emotionally draining its been these last couple of days trying to get answers for the way I feel. I’m probably just not ready to be dating. I’m totally okay with someone who feels like their not any particular gender, but at a minimum plea