imadisaster92529

hi everybody o/

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I met a girl on an app who was looking for a "friends with benefits" type of thing and we talked for a couple of weeks. During this time she invited me over a few times, which I declined because this would be my first time with a woman and well I freaked out a little every time she expressed interest in sleeping with me, which she did often and very explicitly. She was cool about it and said she would wait until I felt ready and we could still talk in the meantime. I would also be her first time with a woman and she said we could make this a regular thing if we wanted.

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One night we were talking and she dropped the info that she's sleeping with a (guy)

Background: I was active on a dating app for a while back because I was new in town, wanted to meet new people, you know the drill.

I specifically said no couples in my profile but this girl hit me up saying something along the lines of "not even us?" and I innocently thought why not, it's just a chat, I have no desire to be with a hetero couple anyway.

So... we did that, just chatted. A lot. For a few weeks. Turns out we had a lot in common, she was also new in town, I opened up about some issues I was having, being lonely and other stuff.

At some point, the conversation did turn spicy but I always ended up reminding her that I did not want to be part of a threesome and wouldn't change

Hi 🙋‍♀️

So I'm 29 and I realized I liked women in the middle of the pandemic when a girl hit on me online and I... liked it? Like, an embarrassing amount. 😅 Like many women on here I finally experienced what real attraction feels like and this was all I could think about for the next few months.

Now, I never liked the idea of a relationship with men, it never felt like it was the right time for it. Recently I started to really want something serious with someone and because I don't go out much and just moved to a new city, I got into dating apps and... I noticed that I'm extremely picky.

Actually, I've always been picky, it's just that with men, the dating pool was larger so I didn't real