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r/ThirtiesIndia•

Do whatever you want in life if it genuinely makes you happy, not to please others or to match some imaginary “what would people think” rulebook. The moment you start living for society and relatives, you also start expecting returns… and fairness from life. Both are terrible investments. Most of the time, nothing comes back and you’re left stressed, disappointed, and questioning your life choices.

But when you do things because you want to, it’s peaceful. No resentment, no score-keeping, no “after all I did for them” monologues in your head, coz you weren’t expecting claps from people or justice from life in the first place.

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r/ThirtiesIndia•

Growing up is understanding that the news is not meant to inform, but to influence. With enough life experience, it becomes clear how political parties use the news cycle to shape opinion and push narratives that serve specific interests. The debates, when observed closely, are largely performative distractions.

Behind this noise lie vested interests, especially those of large business groups. The parties and faces may change, but the pattern remains the same whether in India, the United States, the United Kingdom, or South Korea, wealth and resources consistently concentrate at the top.

At that point, the news begins to lose its relevance. It functions less as truth and more as a constant

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r/ThirtiesIndia•

As for me through my teens and early 20s i used to engage in debates hoping to challenge and change peoples minds. By the time.i entered my 30s i realised that people minds are already made up debating ia just waste of my energy ... Add to it the fact tat with the addvent of social media people started making up their own facts it seems even more waste of time to debate..

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r/ThirtiesIndia•

Society celebrates greatness, but the cost is rarely discussed. Those who dedicate their lives to a single pursuit often sacrifice ordinary human experiences. Success brings wealth and recognition, yet life can become a luxurious cage with constant scrutiny, expectations, and little freedom to be imperfect or carefree.

Figures like Mike Tyson, Nikola Tesla, Virat Kohli and Michael Jackson show how greatness often comes with isolation. As stature grows, so does exploitation people seek access and advantage, leaving very few genuine, trustworthy relationships. Life narrows into a single pursuit, while curiosity, leisure, and connection fade.

What’s more, achievements don’t last forever. Few

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r/ChildfreeIndia•

For me, choosing to be childfree comes primarily from compassion, with a touch of selfishness. I don’t feel comfortable bringing another person into the world only to have them navigate its suffering. The selfish part is honest too,it allows me greater freedom in terms of time, finances, and responsibility.

Walden by Henry David Thoreau has been one of the most influential works I’ve read. It deeply shaped my outlook and inspired me to pursue a simple, grounded life. My aim is to live on land, farming just enough to sustain myself.

Details:

Age: 37, Height: 5 ' 10" (178cms),Weight: 85 kgs, skintone: Brown

State: Andhra Pradesh

Languages: Telugu, Hindi, English, Tamil

Diet: Non-vegetari

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r/southindia_•

Over the last three decades, advances in communication and development have significantly boosted the confidence of Indians. People increasingly see themselves as equals to citizens of other nations.

However, the Left in the country seems out of step with this shift, or unsure of how to engage with it. Their cynicism even when warranted, often comes across as an inability to shed an old inferiority complex, at times bordering on being perceived as anti-Indian.

They need to understand that shaming citizens for being confident and ambeing proud of history will never work; it only pushes people further away from them and from power. It is time for the opposition to learn how to offer hope an

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