is tiring as fuck. Everything you say has to be perfect and the timing is incredibly important too. If you were a good-looking guy you could write whatever the fuck you wanted and meet up on the same day. And even worse is that I should already be grateful to get a response here and there in the first place.
God, I hate the age of online dating.
Posted Apr 6, 2019, 8:43 AM UTC
texting women first
"OMG you're clingy stop harassing me!"
waiting for women to text first
"Why are you ignoring me? You just don't care!"
Online dating? Shoot I get ghosted shortly after exchanging names.
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Pointless to even bother. Why should I have to put so much effort in just to get the privilege of eating with you while Chad can skip all that shit and have you in his bed by night?
^Black pilled, decucked.
Yikes, sweetie, you sound very entitled. Maybe, just maybe, women would like you if you got therapy and adjusted your attitude.
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Or be smart and have a fun date idea that isnt pricey so the girl cant use you and wont go on another date unless she likes you.
Examples of such ideas are internet cafes to game. hangout at a park/low cost food place but still tastes good. rooftops. cheap bars. etc
And you should never ever invite a girl into your home as a first date or go to her home as it could be trapped
:( well, not if you text the right women, yāknow? online dating is fucking ridiculous though
When it comes to online dating they yes it is tough but if you would get as many messages as them you would do the same.
I don't even know how I'd go about finding women to text in the first place.
facebook and instagram. its super easy to text women... but its a whole new hell to get them to agree to meet you
Wait... so do you just ask random female strangers on the internet out on dates?
I'm shocked that doesn't work.
it works. thats how i have met most of my exs and dates but it has a very low chance of success but have virtually no risk unless you send nudes
I don't know if this is a generational thing and this is how dating is supposed to work now, but I don't understand how anybody could have any success from that. Besides I barely know any women online anyway.
Nah thats a garbage waste of getting dates as it wastes alot of time with little success rate and can derail you from nofap.
And its easy to get to know people online. Just text someone with a "hi how are u doing" or similar phrases and/or a compliment and wait. and then yall can talk about each other and arrange a meeting
I'm not sure why you brought nofap into this, I don't see how that's relevant. Also, text who? Random women on Facebook or whatever? I can think of literally no reason why they would reply or want to have a conversation with me. This kind of thing only works if you already have an existing social circle and you're an attractive and likeable person.
Indeed, when I see "dating tips" from seduction reddit and other websites I'm here like "wtf?". Too many straightforward rules, and so many things to consider that you basically get away from being youself. One of the "tips" I've read was something like "Wait 3 days before you reply!". WTF! I reply whenever I want to and as soon as I have free time. Don't like it? You don't deserve me.
Attraction is best when you're interested in the person itself, not in the WAY it interacts (artificially) with the opposite sex.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IRY-yp1r3uY
Texting is ruining your life.
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Facts.
If you are younger guy outnumber girls by many multiples on dating sites so they can be really choosey(itās much easier just to meet woman in person, maybe a college campus. A gym, club if your in any etc. ) When you get in your 30s it even outs. I personally wouldnāt care about messaging anyone perfectly. Just be you if they do t like you fuck them.
This is one of those reasons why sometimes I wish Iād been born in the 19th century. Yeah, the ādatingā rules were rigid as fuck but at least there was some sort of etiquette that was always expected. Now thereās all sorts of blurred lines and youāre constantly questioning your every damn move around the opposite sex and it usually involves all this about social media.
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texting women
Wait people do this?
A girl in middle school like 15 years ago during lunch gave me her number as a joke and I got jumped by the ash tree near the basketball court where she told me to meet her at. She was laughing at the thumping sound of my ribs getting kicked in by her possie. I bet she fucked those dudes too.
But other than that I never got a girls number.shit legit hurt my chest to type.
Wow.. that's awful.
"sweaty why are you liek dis? u just gotta get out there"
Nah man, you just hadnt showered enough
Dude thats why you should look around you if you are meeting a new person(especially in unpopulated areas or crime ridden areas).
And if you must go. take a good weapon (such as one handed hammer. hatchet or metal pipe) and prepare to call the cops in case shtf
This was middle school š
Oh right i thought you meant highschool lol
Lmao imagining this scene with middle schoolers cracked me up
i mean when i was in highschool. i did follow my advice