Andrew985

Let's assume LGBT rights keep advancing.

Do you think we will ever reach a point where it becomes illegal to "out" someone else?

Question for the guys on here who participated in wrestling in high school or college:

Is it true that a lot of guys choose to wear briefs under their uniform for practice/matches?

I know a few guys who wrestled in high school, and they have told me that even guys who normally wore boxers would switch to briefs for extra support. Close to half their team would wear them, even though only like 5-10% of guys do normally.

I also have a fetish for tighty whities, and I see tons of pictures online of wrestlers with obvious "brief lines" showing. There are some where the singlet material is so thin that you can actually see the color of their briefs.

Just curious how prevalent this really is

To those of you who came out early: what is it like seeing more and more guys (especially those who you thought were straight) come out over the years as you progress into adulthood? In particular, how does it make you feel?

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A bit of background:

• Back in high school, I was in a biology lab group with an obviously gay guy

• I'm the type no one suspects to like men, and didn't come out as bi until I was 22

• Eventually reconnected with the guy from high school (saw him on Grindr) and we start hanging out and being friendly

• He will occasionally lament about how things were back in high school, like how he was singled out for being the obvious gay kid, how he didn't want to come

My boyfriend dislikes that:

1. I get mad at inanimate objects, such as a phone charger not working and causing my phone to die

2. I'm the type of person that would rather hire a lawn care service than mow the yard myself

3. I perpetually leave to get places pretty much right on time, so if we ever have to take a detour or get stuck in traffic, we end up a bit late

So a lot of porn blogs I used to frequent are blocked by an age restriction now. You have to log in and certify your age to view them. Okay, no problem there, I have an account to log in with....

But it never works. It never stays logged in. I've tried with Google, and the Tumblr app itself.

Does anyone know of a solution around this on mobile? Is there any way to shut "safe mode" off?

EDIT:

Thanks for the help everyone. Ended up downloading the app again and making a new account. What frustrates me is that I cannot search specific blogs by URL or title... but I've found some of what I'm looking for.

Ask yourself: how many women have you seen dating feminine straight guys? It's safe to say not many, and there's a good chance some users here have never seen this take place at all.

So why is it okay for women to prefer masculine guys, but it's suddenly an issue (self-hate, internalized homophobia) if a gay guy feels the same way? How is that not logically inconsistent?

Gay guys need to stop comparing themselves and their experiences to straight people. I'm getting really frustrated with some of the "woe is me" type of comments that I see on here. Stop getting so down on yourselves!

It's 100% normal for gay guys to still be virgins at 18+ years old.

It's 100% normal to not have your first real boyfriend until you're in your 20s.

This sort of stuff is par-for-the-course. Only around 5% of guys are gay/bisexual, and most guys don't come out of the closet until college or later. This means you're not going to be able to find sex or dates as easily as your straight friends and classmates. That's just the way life works for men who want to date other men. It

A lot of gay dudes think they're being clever by dodging this question ("why does it matter?", "it is rude to ask that", etc.). But here's thing: straight guys have no reason to hide their sexuality. There is no reason why they would get defensive or try to dodge the question. In fact, most straight guys would be eager to confirm that they are not gay.

If people ask this question, then they're already suspicious of your sexuality. Answering this question with anything besides "I'm straight" means you have something to hide and thus confirms their suspicions. Anything besides "I'm straight" means you are essentially coming out to them.

Agree or disagree?

EDIT: for clarity, I'm talking

Not really a question, just figured I'd share. There's a new cartoon on Netflix (rated TV-MA, so it's raunchy humor) called Big Mouth. It's about a bunch of middle schoolers going through puberty, dating, figuring themselves out, etc. Anyway, there's an episode where one of the characters thinks he might be gay because he got a random boner for The Rock. At one point when it's being discussed, other characters make it very clear that being gay is okay.

Another point that stuck out is when he goes up to the token stereotypical gay character and asks for advice. He says "you're the only gay person I know", which seems accurate. But the writers made it a point for the gay kid to respond with

Does anyone know of any sites that upload similar material? To be clear: I do not mean the cheesy "straight" aspect.

I am looking for porn recommendations for guys who are young (18-28), in pretty good shape, and are shown to be wearing tighty whities at some point in the video. Broke Straight Boys does this pretty consistently in their videos; the guys start off fully clothed, and the director prompts them to start undressing. They will usually stay in their underwear for a while.

Any recommendations?

[Interchange masc/fem for the reverse scenario]

Let's say that you are more masculine in terms of appearance and behavior. You find a really hot guy that you're interested in. You later come to find out that this guy holds negative views about feminine guys.

How well he treats others generally indicates the quality of his character, so if we were talking about dating then these negative views may be a big red flag for a lot of people. But what about when hooking up? Does it really matter what his views on feminine guys are if you're only having sex?

Assuming you are masculine: would you fuck a guy who dislikes feminine guys, or would that be a deal-breaker?

A friend and I were discussing this last weekend:

Let's say that you are [race A]. You find a really hot guy that you're interested in. You later come to find out that this guy holds racist views about [race B].

How he treats others generally indicates the quality of his character, so if we were talking about dating then racism would obviously be a big red flag for most people. But what about when hooking up? Does it really matter what his racial views/preferences are if you're only interest in sex?

Would you fuck a racist, or would that be a deal-breaker?

Back in college I met a guy who ended being a really good FWB. The best part was that we would be really open in our discussions before/after having sex. We were both closeted frat bros and it was our first time getting with someone like ourselves. We were quick to confide in each other due to that shared level of discretion.

We would talk about guys we wanted to hook up with without any feelings of jealousy. We would recommend "trying out" certain guys and give tips on how to talk to them when trying to hookup ("he's really into the Blackhawks and likes when guys worship his dick"). And of course we'd rate our classmates' dick sizes and talk about who was a bottom/top (and who we'd like

If a twink that has body hair is classified as an "otter", what does that make a twink with a beard?

Are they still a twink?

A friend and I are disagreeing whether a twink needs to be completely smooth and hairless.

This should be a pretty straightforward fix.

Some subreddits, like r/conservative for example have a very simple rule: in order to post in their subreddit, your account must have at least +100 karma.

This makes it so you can't just create troll accounts - you actually have to spend time making quality posts and getting upvotes. This extra step would be enough for many trolls to realize it's not worth the effort.

I'm thinking we should implement this here. Thoughts?