Pretty much as the title says. I don't really know what to do at this point. We have been together for almost two years, have been living together in his house that he owns (this is important later) for a year and a half.
We had a huge discussion last night, because ever since I moved in I feel like I have to tiptoe around this house. It's a mess in here. He was single for 12 years before me, living alone for almost 10, so he's very used to his way and living how he likes to live. We have a very loving relationship in general, and when we have issues we discuss things and talk them through, not fight. Everything from the outside looking in is amazing. But I've come to learn that he has some


