Hi, I’m 21F and I live at home with my mom. I work full time (40 hrs/week) and currently contribute about $300 every two weeks (around $600/month).
Recently, my mom told me she wants to start putting more bills in my name (like streaming services and subscriptions). I told her I’d rather just cancel some of them since I don’t really use them and I’m trying to manage my money better and be more financially independent.
That’s when things escalated.
She got upset and said I was being unreliable and a liar because I had previously agreed to pay for them. She then said that if I want to be independent, I shouldn’t use anything she pays for (like household items), and even suggested she could






