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Have there been any data sets or studies done about what percentage of deadbedrooms actually get fixed, end in divorce, etc.?

One of the common threads in this sub is that the LL will "never" budge and that the HL should just leave because you can't "fix" a LL.

I'm just curious if anyone has ever come across studies that present statistics for how most sexually incompatible relationships end.

Please hold the advise on this post if possible. Thank you.

Anybody else here in counseling with your SO? I can't be the only one here who loses his mind when his wife doesn't seem to ever apply herself. I mean I take notes, remind myself to focus on specific things in our interactions (the counselor has called this homework). We usually each have homework, and she hasn't once even shown an attempt to try.

This counseling isn't cheap, and if I'm the only one who is open to change then we'll just be right here again within a year or two.

Just needed to vent. Will be bringing this up next time we have an appointment too.

Kubiak did win us a Super Bowl just 10 months ago, didn't he?

All across Broncos Country I'm seeing people putting the blame solely on Kubs. It's making us look stupid as a fan base.

Yeah, Elway gave him two OL but have either of them been an improvement over what we had last year? If not, then guess who's fault that would actually be? John Elway and the scouting dept.

Sure Kubiak makes some questionable calls, but they're only questionable in hindsight, after we've all had the opportunity to see how it plays out.

I remember a lot of us being really mad at how Foxy handled the end of regulation in the '12 playoffs by taking a knee instead of going for the win "it's the playoffs!! At l

I'm a Christian and have been ever since I was old enough to truly understand the salvation story.

But recently I have felt like God doesn't love me. Like I don't belong. I've seen 3 pastors get fired in my life for reasons I felt were selfish on the churches part. I have been involved in two small groups that didn't work out (yuppies in one, which I am not, and then the other group which I have related to more than I ever thought possible broke up this year due to the firing of one of the pastors I loved) What do I do? Can y'all pray for me?

I just don't feel like I'm a part of this religion despite God calling me as one of his sons.

Please be praying for me. I don't know what to thi

Nobody gave us a chance this season. And we proved them all wrong.

Thank you, Rapids, for bringing winning soccer back to the REAL Rocky Mountain Region.

Almost everybody on this squad is deserving of some sort of praise.

Rapids starting XI 4-2-3-1

MacMath Burch Sjöberg Watts Miller Powers Azira Gashi Jones Le Toux Doyle

Bench: Badji, Berner, Burling, Calvert, Hairston, Pappa, Williams

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Sounders starting XI 4-2-3-1

Frei J Jones Marshall Torres Mears Roldan Alonso Ivanschitz Lodeiro Morris Valdez

Bench: Miller, Scott, Alfaro, Fisher, Kovar, Fernandez, Gomez

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Thoughts?

I wish Hairston could get a start here over Le Toux but maybe Pablo is saving Hairston for an impact sub should we need it.

Come on you Rapids!!

Been in a dead bedroom for the last two years and I gotta say...watching porn doesn't even help anymore. I'm the HL she's the NL/LL

Sex in general is such a turnoff for me because of countless times I've been turned away by my wife that even the idea of masterbating or having sex with my wife seems to be something I'm no longer interested in.

has this happened to anyone else? Or am I just that big of a defeatist?

It took two years but I finally reached my breaking point. We've been married for 4 years. We have a daughter and I love her to bits. But I can't take the rejection from my wife, the lack of sex completely, the feeling that the woman I pledged my life to turned a 180 after two years of marriage and decided that she no longer has to earn my desire by doing things with me that I enjoy doing. Our marriage is teetering on the edge of a knife right now. And we're finally talking about splitting up.

She's packed her bags, and I'm ok with it. She's threatened to leave, and I'm ok with it.

I've learned a lot from this sub, and I've appreciated all the words of wisdom from first hand experience.

I had a wet dream recently...a 31M/HL.

I haven't had one since I was probably 14.

When I told my 30LL SO their response was "I didn't know men your age still had those. Please change the sheets so I don't have to do them when I get home"

Fuck my life.

I think I hate our DB so much for two reasons.

1. the guilt I get from watching porn. As a Christian I'm supposed to be monogamous and respect women. Watching porn makes me feel spiritually guilty as well as relationally guilty. EDIT: I don't watch porn normally and she knows that too. I've been watching to release that pent up frustration for about 3 months now. In that time we have had sex twice.

2. feeling a rush when I download the tinder app for a day and fantasize about being with a woman who actually thinks I'm attractive and shows it through emotional and physical love.

Anybody else have anything specific (aside from the obvious) they hate about their dead bedroom that makes it

He was the PA at the game on Saturday right?

How did he do?