r/RBNSpouses

1.1K archived posts · Jan 2014 – Aug 2026

For those of us who need help learning about our previously abused spouses

r/RBNSpouses

A subreddit for significant others of narcissistic abuse survivors. Also a place to let off steam for when your SO's FLEAs are just too strong. What is all this jargon? [Click here!](http://bit.ly/1MjA1bt)

Created Jan 24, 2014

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######A subreddit for significant others of narcissistic abuse survivors.

Also a place to let off steam for when your SO's FLEAs are just too strong.

######What is all this jargon? Click here!

#####Questions? Concerns? Message the Mods!-

Please don't send your posts to modmail. Given the high volume of modmails the mods receive, we aren't able to individually respond to posts sent to us

######BEFORE YOU POST OR COMMENT READ THE RULES:

Click here for more detailed information on the rules of this sub, our trigger warnings and our tagging practices.

Be nice. No personal attacks, name calling, or bullying. Exercise empathy. Respect boundaries. No slurs or victim-blaming. Don't downvote. Speak with your upvotes.

Do not derail the posts of others.

Narcissists are NOT allowed to post or comment here.

Please refrain from posting "uplifting" or "ACoNs are an inspiration to me" threads.

When you comment, assume a context of abuse to all posts.

Flaming will not be tolerated.

Comments and posts that are hurtful or made without a basic understanding of the rules or subject matter discussed here will be removed.

No posts or comments advocating violence, murder or revenge (even in jest).

No posts about N-kids.

No diagnosis by media/drive-by diagnosis. Please only post about people you know well personally.

No direct linking to anywhere on reddit

No pure image posts - Memes, etc., must be contained within a self-post. (Example.).

#####RBN Network

r/raisedbynarcissists

#####RBN Allies

r/NarcissisticAbuse

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