r/overgivers

9 archived posts · Jul 2016 – Aug 2026

Over Givers

r/overgivers

This Reddit is for people who have social problems because they tend to give too much to others and end up in one way relationships.

Created Jul 4, 2016

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######This is a support group for people who, for a reason or another, tend to give too much in relationship so that they end up creating one way relationships in which they are unable to get support from friends they may have spent years supporting.

Many overgivers are this way because they were raised by a parent with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders, or if you prefer, narcissists, but you can post here even if you were raised by loving parents.

####For those struggling with suicidal thoughts and feelings:

r/SuicideWatch

#If you think you may hurt yourself or others, please call your local emergency services: 911, 999, 112, etc.

#####What is an overgiver?

Coming soon...

#####What is a narcissist?

Trait lists are here and here. While they are titled traits specific to mothers or fathers, either gender can have traits from either list.

####If you suspect you may be a narcissist,

Read Help! I Think I am a Narcissist!

#####If you know you are a narcissist,

consider posting to r/selfimprovement or r/DecidingToBeBetter as narcissists are NOT allowed to post or comment in this subreddit.

######BEFORE YOU POST OR COMMENT READ THE RULES:

Click here for more detailed information on the rules of this sub, our trigger warnings and our tagging practices.

Be nice. No personal attacks, name calling, or bullying. Exercise empathy. Respect boundaries. No slurs or victim-blaming. Don't downvote. Speak with your upvotes.

Do not derail the posts of others.

Narcissists are NOT allowed to post or comment here.

Please refrain from posting "uplifting" or "ACoNs are an inspiration to me" threads.

When you comment, assume a context of abuse to all posts.

Flaming will not be tolerated.

Comments and posts that are hurtful or made without a basic understanding of the rules or subject matter discussed here will be removed.

No posts or comments advocating violence, murder or revenge (even in jest).

No posts about N-kids.

No diagnosis by media/drive-by diagnosis. Please only post about people you know well personally. Otherwise you can post your stories here.

No linking to personal or public Facebook pages

No direct linking to anywhere on reddit

No pure image posts - Memes, etc., must be contained within a self-post. (Example.).

#####RBN Network

r/raisedbynarcissists

#####RBN Allies

r/NarcissisticAbuse

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