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I really don't know what triggered this or what, this past saturday I woke up and just felt a huge wave of emotions a mixture of sadness and anger. Then the thoughts of my ex just came into my head like just exploded in my mind. The memories came rushing back, the breakup, the weeks leading up to the breakup, the feeling of how it felt to be dumped. I spent the weekend in a daze of just not knowing what to do. I haven't spoken to her in months either.

I've been extremely happy since Feb, went to a therapist and got my shit together, going back to school next month, got a new car and even went on a few dates with a wonderful woman recently. But this past weekend, I don't know what cause

I made a thread not too long ago about how my friend was recently dumped and how sad and depressed she was and I was trying my best to be there for her. Well this past week she decided to wait for him in hopes of coming back. For the week she told me a little more about this guy that I had previously not known, he has two failed marriages, 2 children and his second wife still lives with him (plans on moving out in July apparently though), among other things that would raise a ton of red flags.

She kept coming to me for advice on the matter and every time I would voice my opinions and concerns (when she asked) she would always brush my feelings aside. Now this initially didnt bother me

She was dating a guy (a few years older than her) for about 2 months. He seemed like a good guy when I met him and she said she was really falling for him. Well two days ago out of the blue he dumps her because his life is a mess and he doesn't want to drag her or her kid down with him.

She is understandably heartbroken and for the last two days has gone from utter sadness to being furious to now wanting to just wait it out. I'm there to listen and offer any kind words when needed, but I'm just wondering if there is more I can do. I hate seeing her so depressed and I know from personal experience this is going to take some time.

I suggested she go no contact, but she doesn't want to a

Allow me to start by saying some of you are aware that this girl accused me of hacking her facebook in March. With that said she recently apologised for the accusations and I've forgiven her (really didnt bother me at the time).

We ran into each other about 3 weeks ago while I was running some errands in town. We were polite to each other and had a short conversation and agreed to catching up in the near future. A few days later I text her and ask if she would like to meet up at the park to catch up. She agrees, we meet up, catch up and agree on working on a friendship. Allow me to add, I have no desire or intentions of getting back with her. In the time we've been apart I've worked o

So yeah, as the title goes. We broke up in October and it was a pretty mutual although hurtful break up. Her friend's told me she tried dating some guy shortly after we broke up and he was only using her. I've been living with a friend since and have been doing really well in life. Some ups and downs, but overall I'm a way happier person than I was in the 2 years we were together.

I went full no contact after we broke up as well, deleted all her profiles on my laptop that we shared and haven't even seen her since then.

I guess it's not a huge deal, but it was out of the blue and I honestly was a bit shocked and a little mad that she would accuse me of this. I haven't texted her back a

So I started a new job in August and I get paid double my salary compared to my old job. I also recently broke up with my gf and let her stay in the apartment and asked my landlord to remove me from the lease. I have it written and signed that I am no longer on the lease starting November 1st. I have no car payment to worry about and this student loan is the only thing on my credit report that has been haunting me for 3 years.

I want to pay it off October 25. I have $960 in my savings along with about 2k in my checkings. I have no other bills to worry about for the month of October as well.

So would it be wise to pay off my loans or should I continue to make payments?

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So Sunday she came home and told me she needed time to think about what she wanted. Texted me the next day and told me about how she doesn't think we are the same people anymore and that she doesn't want me changing myself just for her. She said she thinks it would be best to break up. I offered to move out, starting packing my things and she was clearly upset and mad. I offered to help pay for the bills so her and her daughter didn't have to worry about things come these next few months. She told me she didn't need me and that she has been alone before and can manag

My gf has a 4 year old daughter. I've known her daughter since she has been about a year and a few months old. So I've seen her grow up quite a bit. (more about this at the bottom)

Last night my gf texts me while at work saying how she really wants to have another kid within the year. I agree and say how we should really start making the effort to prepare for a kid. This immediately freaked out my gf it seems.

In the past we have talked about this and I've always said how I don't want kids right away until we are financially secure. I recently got a new job that doubled my salary. My student loans will be paid off by December of this year, I will have zero debt left over. This wi

We have been together for 2 and a half years as of the 5th of June. I want to propose to her sometime in November or December. My price range for the ring is not much of an issue since I have a fair amount saved up from the last few years.

I've never bought her any sort of jewelery before because she really doesn't wear it or anything, so bringing her to a jewelery shop will definitely send some signals her way and I don't want her suspecting anything.

So I'm asking for the people who have been in a similar situation such as myself, how did you pull it off without your SO knowing? Or did you just accept that they knew you were planning on proposing?

TL;DR: Want to propose to my gf, not

I honestly think in my last 20 games that have been normals (been pretty much just playing ARAM lately) I have been on teams with completely clueless players who don't speak english, never buy wards, fail to call out MIAs, fail to set up ganks (when I am jungling I try my hardest to gank and just fail because my team mate runs to turret when I engage), I only ever support it seems.

I'm trying my hardest to get better at this game, but when my team is down 15 kills by the 15 minute mark, I'm the only one with a decent amount of creep kills (nothing too impressive), we never get dragon once, etc. It just feels like a waste continuing with this game.

I don't know, just felt like ranting. :/

The spawns seem really bad. Especially at the beginning when I'm spawning near the other team and away from my team and when the enemy team keeps spawning near the extraction points.

Anyone else feel the same?

Maybe it was because none of the pros were allowed to play (I believe they used this events for amateurs to get sponsors?), maybe it was the lack of professionalism from the players, maybe it was the fact that a lot of these players looked like they just went into Team Throwdown solo and were paired up with randoms.

But this past weekend's event was just disappointing. AGL Nashville looks stacked with 50+ teams (some are fully yet) and some very familiar names, but I think with the way AGL allows their players to just act like a bunch of teenagers who are away from their parents for the weekend really makes their company look bad.

I will say that the stream and camera quality were a lot b

The more I swear the BR hates me. It's very frustrating.

Just a heads up to anyone having problems with that achievement and commendation.

Now it doesn't equal an instant double kill, but it helps a lot.