anxiousorca

Hey vagina-havers! I just wanted to share a little bit of success I had. Full disclaimer, my vaginismus is overall moderate, and not usually severe. I can generally achieve penetration of smaller sizes but it ranges from burning and stinging to intense pain, whereas I know a lot of people with vaginismus can't have any penetration whatsoever.

With that said, I am doing well with smaller dialators and wanted to try something bigger. Everything I have is silicone, so I thought I'd give something else a try. I opted for a smallish glass dildo and oh my lord, the glass was SO much more comfortable for me than silicone!! I had so much more success with it than I thought I would and I'm just so,

When I'm reading fiction, 99% of the time I'm using an e-reader and I love it. Seriously, e-readers have changed the game for me in a way I never thought possible.

BUT, when I'm reading romance, I sometimes encounter a problem like the one I'm facing today: I'm not super invested in the story but I wanna skim through until I get to the parts I care about. It would be sooo nice to be able to just flip through physical pages instead of scrolling through on a screen. It's also nice to be able to note and physically return to scenes I enjoy (you know which scenes I mean... always after book booty and those first kiss vibes 😏).

Please share your thoughts with the class

Okay, so I just got a pair of Queen Polewear kneepads, just the basic grippy ones. I'm all excited, I think I did a great job with measuring my legs correctly, and I put them on and... boy they are tight. It says that they are tight to start with and will stretch 1-2 cm after a few uses but... I am skeptical. Anyone have experience with this?

Has anybody tried magnetic false lashes? I've started wearing falsies and I really like them, my eyes are so sensitive I can't really wear mascara (yet lash glue is fine... it's a mystery).

Thing is -- I'm really bad at applying them. The idea of magnetic eyeliner really appeals to me but it almost seems too good to be true... what do you guys think??

I know a fair number of women with inverted nips, and yet I never read about women with innies in romance. Why is that? Is it considered "undesirable"? It just seems odd to me. I myself have one regular and one innie (basically the titty equivalent of having two different colored eyes, not to brag or anything 😏). I used to be self conscious but as an adult I've learned it's not uncommon. SO WHERE ARE THE INNIE NIPPLES??

Discuss

I took a video of myself in an exotic class the other day, watched it back, and was like... my butt needs something more flattering lol. I don't usually care about what I wear in class/working out, but I wanna dress cute for my exotic class cause it makes me feel nice. I want something that's made really make your ass look bomb because what I have now isn't doing much for me (I basically wear either compression biking shorts or a special pair of underwear).

I've been looking at Cute Booty shorts, but none of their patterns really do it for me. Any suggestions from you gorgeous people?

I do. I've read a few books where alien jizz causes their partner to just orgasm uncontrollably, or like they have a super crazy long tongue that's got ridges and bumps.

When I read about crazy stuff like that, a part of me sheds a little tear.

I've been doing pole classes for a few months mostly just for funsies, but now I'm getting more into it and want to actually practice in between classes. Open pole time is rather expensive where I am ($25 a visit). I rent, so I'm not sure if I could get away with a tension pole, but it's something I've considered just for practicing basic spins and floor work (nowhere near invert level yet!).

So all that to say -- this is a fairly expensive hobby. How do yall practice without breaking the bank?

Okay guys. Praise kink and "unattractive" mmcs are my new jam. I read King Sized by Jessa Kane and I was like... holy shit. This is my thing. Just chef's kiss

Gimme some books where the male mc just cannot get over how lucky they feel to have fmc, like they never thought they had a shot. Gimme all the praise and all the worship. The sexier the better, I'm a horny bitch

Edit: thank you for the recommendations my darlings. You are all so gorgeous and I love you

Stuff that you never knew you liked until you run across it in a book and you're like... oh shit. I'll go first:

-being called a good girl: holy hell guys. Gives me those butterflies in the stomach something fierce

-biting. Nuff said

-tails. Anytime I read a romance with a mc that has a tail I'm like DO SOMETHING SEXY WITH IT

Your turn folks, spill it!

EDIT: A big one i forgot: weird dicks. Give me all the ridges and bumps and prehensile bits and parts that vibrate and odd shapes

Help me out folks. I love huge, grumpy mmc's who end up with a soft spot for a sweet, soft fmc. I prefer it if she's just a normal ole girl and not anyone of great importance. I know bad ass girls who can stand up for themselves are cool, but I am a sucker for a soft sensitive lady who needs protection.

I'm on an alien and paranormal kick right now, so that takes priority, but any genre will do. The surlier and more protective the better.

Love you all by the way. Kindred spirits we all are 😔👌

!!!SPOILERS!!!

So like many of us fine patrons of the romantic arts i read and enjoyed Love in the Afternoon. I loved the characters so much that I embarked on a mission to read all the other books in the series.

I will start this by saying I generally hate dubcon, so that impacts my feelings on the books.

I am about 50% into Tempt Me at Twilight and officially DNFing it. Mine Til Midnight was great, I absolutely hated Seduce Me at Sunrise (still mad about it), and Tempt Me at Twilight has completely lost me by making Harry the absolute biggest douchebag in the whole world. I was loving it at first, but the fact that Poppy went through with marrying him and then was like fine I'll do my

Well do I have a book for YOU! In Total Surrender by Anne Mallory is one of my favorite romance books so far. I plowed through the whole thing in a day and a half 😅 My only criticism --

SPOILER WARNING BECAUSE I DONT KNOW HOW TO BLACK OUT TEXT

-- is that the steamy scenes were not very descriptive, and, well, I don't like that lol. I want like 6 pages of somebody getting their soul pounded right out of their body. Alas, that is my preference, but didn't stop me from thoroughly enjoying the book.

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Please check it out if you like the angry mc falls for nice mc trope! And let me know what you think! Thank you all for providing such great recommendations and discussions ❤