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If anyone has received this before your input is appreciated.

So I'm the type of person with 10 thousand unread emails, a messy car, finding my clothes and things in unusual places. I also on average lose my debit card 3 times a year. And my license, lets not go there.

I'm not an unproductive person, I'm doing alot as a dad and with my career. I just feel like i could use some refernces to be more organized without it feeling like a tremendous amount of work.

If anyones managed to go from someone like myself to having 0 problem with someone stepping into their car, id appreciate some advice.

I hang around alot of guys that are mechanics or in the trades its alot of tough showing out and I never get a word in. I tried figuring out if I just blurt out dumb shit or not.

Even my roommate will talk to anyone and everyone, but when it comes to me I try and make small talk and he just blows it off. Not sure if its my voice or how I say things. If I'm the only person to talk to people will talk to me, but over the years ive gotten so used to this shit that I just tend to not hang around in circles with people or at a lunch table, I'll just go to the corner on lunch and sit and watch Netflix. I also always walk around with my headphones on like its. Choice that I choose not to talk to

So. I know 24 hours big whoop. I also used a patch but even on the patch ive never made it this far. I was even around a smoker,earlier in the day. Drove PAST gas stations on the way to work.

But got,the text mid fixing a machine at work"Smoke"

I kinda fought myself for a split second and said fuck it. I'll just hold it. Maybe a couple of small breaths in. I did do that.. 3 small breaths in. I didnt sit there and inhale the shit out of it. But still immediately after felt the guilt despite.

Can I get some motivation?

Me and my sons mom,get along really well. We both are gonna sit down and explain our seperation to 4 year old (almost 5) that we are seperated, that hes going to be an older brother with my girlfriend of 2 years. After talking with the bio parents I will take him to see girlfriend where he can ask what questions he wants to ask.

How the hell do I bring this all up though? I'm going to be doing the talking and I want to know if anyone has experience with this and any useful advice ?

I smoke a pack a day for 14 years. Ive tried carrying a picture of my little man with me. Ive tried using patch. Ive tried telling myself I can do it. Ive tried buying a pack and taking one out and tossing it. But the prospect of money loss, death and everything is not enough. I somehow still emd up at the liquor store telling myself "tomorrow is the day" "monday is the day" I know Allen Carr says "addictive personality" isnt a thing or whatever. But I have that. I can turn anything into an addiction. Guitar, xbox, weed, adderall, ciggarettes. Any one with similiar experience have any advice ?

I have like 1 friend at 31 years old. Im a good dude with good intentions. I just get really hyper or excited when I talk to people and I feel like because im not miserable or domt have a "I could care less" type of attitude that everyone kikd of runs away from me.

Anyone ever have this problem? What steps can i take to practice relaxing when i talk to people

I am 30

I have a job making 35 an hour in the trades. But i dont want to work every weekend for the rest of my life.

I started getting tattoos when I was 18. I was in the army and thats where i started. Because of a rough childhood and alot of tragedy, Ive been convinced my whole life i was going to die young. I STILL believe that but i suppose now that I'm 30 in starting to realize maybe it will happen, maybe it wont.

I have tattoos all down my arms, my legs but more concerning are the tattoos on my neck and hands, nothing innappropriate.

Ive been considering 2 routes, one is getting this specific certification that will make me one of the most useful people in my trade, the other

So Im under the impression that right now I can file for exemption for 2019 property taxes. I became,50 percent at the beginning of 2019. But continued to pay about the sane amount I did in 2018. When I asked the treasurer why, they explained almost a year ago I would file for my exemption in 2020.

So here we are. Ive been paying the same amount here in 2020 as I did in 2019 every month into my escrow but no refunds have been issued. Is this because when i file for my exemption now they will refund me back the money ive been paying consistently?

Trying to make,this less confusing as possible

After having Italian businessmen and mechanics here at our plant and do nothing but bash our women and talk smack about Folgers it got my mind remembering all the traveling ive done and the best and most curtious people were in small town america or talking to some group of people outside a bar on the South side of Chicago for hours.

Turning 31 in a week. I have been smoking since i was 17. Cigarettes and weed. I would say I turn anything into an addiction, I chase a mood and I legitimately enjoy smoking as well as being addicted to it. I read Alan carrs book, didnt work. Tried the patch, didnt work. If I try cold turkey, next thing you know I'm at the store buying smokes. Its like ome side of my personality is okay with keeping smoking and the other side is afraid of dying of lung cancer and leaving my son without a father before he graduates high school, hes only 4 right now. But does anyone have any advice. Like can someone tell me what to do ?

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