A couple years ago I accidentally impregnated a friend from work. It was a one time only sorta thing, but I chose to ask her to keep the baby because... he's mine. I wanted no form of relationship with her beyond friendship, but I agreed to share a home with her and raise him for a while, provided we kept our personal lives separate and discussed/negotiated future issues. It was important, if my son was going to have a good childhood. It only worked for a few months, as she became obsessive and suspicious and made out to her family that we had a relationship. I asked her to leave, and I kept my son about 70% of the time - all day every day, and 4-5 nights a week.
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